Thursday, January 28, 2021

36 Must-Read Books: A Year in the Life of a Bookaholic

As 2020 began twelve months ago, this bookaholic πŸ“šπŸ“–πŸ“•πŸ“–πŸ“š thought she would try something just a little different. Who knew how different 2020 itself would become! It threw everything into a tailspin, and reading was normally a refuge for me.

And yes, bookaholic IS a word! I have been calling myself one for years, but with my new Christmas present 🎁, it is now official! LOL

Official Bookaholic Uniform


I have never before taken the time to write down all the books I have read in the course of one year. I have lists of this & that, but this is a new one for me. 

I know that I like to read a wide variety of books πŸ“šπŸ“šπŸ“š, but I thought listing them in one place like this would give me a visual of how eclectic my tastes really are. I also wanted to share these books with you, and help you find a new favorite or two!



It also gave me a window into how outside events shaped my mindset at the time. For example, I had trouble following Hiding the Past, however I started reading it early into the pandemic and was having trouble focusing on anything at the time.


AND, LET'S BEGIN~




  1. Cozy Minimalist Home: More Style, Less Stuff by MyQuillyn Smith

☆   I don't normally read design books, just usually glance at the photos. However, I read

this one, and checked out her blog. Best part ~ introducing my to "hygge", a Danish

word that is a " quality of coziness that makes a person feel content and

comfortable." (Source: Merriam-Webster)     

    





  1.  The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom

☆   Good book. It revolves a young Irish girl named Lavinia, and her place amongst the

slaves and family on a Virginia plantation. There is a follow-up book, titled Glory

Over Everything: Beyond the Kitchen House, that revolves around Jamie and Sukey.






  1.   Word to the Wise by Jenn McKinlay

☆   (10th book in the Library Lover's Mystery series) I have never been a big mystery
fan, but I think Jenn is doing well at converting me! Funny, absorbing, gets you
invested into the lives of characters.





  1. Hiding the Past by Nathan Dylan Goodwin   ☆ (Book 1 in the Morton Farrier series) This should have been a good pick for me. It is a genealogical murder mystery. But, for some reason, I just couldn't get into this book. It was the beginning of our experience with the pandemic, and I think that had a lot to do with it. I gave it 25 pages before I gave up. I just couldn't get myself vested into the characters, like I should. I had checked out Book 2 (The Lost Ancestor), but never even opened it. I am going to order them both again through ILL, and give them another chance.





  1.    Far From the Tree by Robin Benway

 ☆ I do not generally pick up YA books because usually I am finding so many adult books to read. I  had asked on Twitter for family history/genealogy fiction suggestions. This suggestion did not disappoint! Drew me in from the first page, and I was really interested in what happened to Grace, Maya & Joaquin!




  1.    The Making of Outlander: The Series: The Official Guide to Seasons Three and Four by Tara Bennett

   ☆ It's about "Outlander". Enough said!! LOL πŸ˜€ Seriously, although I am a major fan of both the book and Starz series, I would still recommend this book (and the previous one) for anyone that loves to read the "behind-the-scenes stuff" that gives you the inside scoop.




  1.    The Sun Sister by Lucinda Riley

    ☆ Book #6 in 7-book series (The Seven Sisters). Each book follows one of the six sisters adopted by their beloved "Pa Salt". This book tells the story of the beautiful supermodel sister, Electra, and her biological family's past. And, yes, the book series is titled The Seven Sisters, and only six girls were adopted by Pa Salt. Hmm πŸ€”, leaves you wondering about Book #7, doesn't it? πŸ€”




  1.   In the Blood by Steve Robinson

☆ (Book #1 in the Jefferson Tayte series) Another genealogical murder mystery. I mostly liked the characters in this book, and there is plenty of action. Good genealogical crime mystery. It was his debut novel, so worth giving Book #2 a chance down the road.




  1.   Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love by Dani Shapiro

☆ After taking a DNA test, the author discovers that her beloved father is not truly her father. The book follows her as she processes this information, and finds the truth. Takes the reader through the early days of artificial insemination.         

     



  1.   Today We Go Home by Kelli Estes

☆ An Army veteran comes home from Iraq with PSTD, and other issues she needs to work through to heal. Reading the diary of a woman who fought in the Civil War disguised as a man helps Larkin come to terms with her service.





  1.   The Field Guide to the North American Teenager by Ben Philippe

☆ A teenage black Canadian hockey player moves to Texas. His observations of the various social groups as he tries to fit in are quite interesting.





  1.    Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate

☆ A fictional account of a family of five children caught up in Georgia Tann's TCHS adoption scandal, and the repercussions that are still affecting the descendants decades later. One of my favorite books from 2020!





  1.  Before and After: The Incredible Real-Life Stories of Orphans Who Survived the Tennessee Children's Home Society by Judy Christie and Lisa Wingate

☆ The subtitle of this book states it all. After Lisa Wingate wrote Before We Were Yours, she was inundated with real-life adoptees who saw themselves in her novel. This is their story.





  1.   Refugee by Alan Gratz

 ☆ An enlightening YA novel that captured my interest, Refugee takes what appears to be three separate stories of escaping terrible conditions in your own country to make a better life in another, and weaves them together beautifully.






  1.   The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion

☆ Dating is hard enough for any of us. But for Don Tillman, Asperger's Syndrome can make it especially hard. So, Don turns looking for a wife into a project. And, my friends, that is where the story starts to get very intinteresting!






  1.   The Perfect Husband by Lisa Gardner

☆ I had never read any of Lisa Gardner's books yet, and this one came highly recommended by a friend. It didn't disappoint! Lots of action and suspense, well-development characters, strong female protagonists...what else could you want?






  1.   Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World by Melinda Gates

☆ Melinda Gates shares how giving women in many different countries more control over their lives empowers them.the When you empower the women, the ripple effect can make changes that are felt around the world.





   18.  Circling the Sun by Paula McLain

☆ This historical fiction book focuses on the remarkable life of Beryl Markham. Beryl grew up in colonial Kenya, lives by her own rules, and breaks ground throughout life as a horse trainer and aviator. The book is a novelized account of her life through her 20's. Excellent book, and highly recorecommended!





   19.   Ghost by Jason Reynolds
           ☆ A 2016 National Books Awards finalist for Young People’s Literature, Ghost 
               tells the story of Castle Crenshaw, a troubled 7th grader who "accidentally" 
               joins a track team. How this affects his life is well worth discovering as you 
               read this absorbing YA book.




   20.  Old School Love by Joseph Simmons & Justine Simmons

          ☆ Joseph Simmons, AKA Rev Run from Run DMC, & his wife, Justine, give excellent

relationship advice in a straightforward, no-holds barred manner sprinkled

with examples from their own life together.





   21.  In Such Good Company: Eleven Years of Laughter, Mayhem,

          and Fun in the Sandbox by Carol Burnett

          ☆ Anyone that has enjoyed "The Carol Burnett Show" over the years will enjoy this

behind-the-scenes look at this beloved classic! I listened to the audiobook read

by Carol Burnett herself. What a wonderful treat!





  22.   Finding Dorothy by Elizabeth Letts

          ☆ "Finding Dorothy" is about the life of Maud Gage Baum, wife of L. Frank Baum.                               Of course, Frank is well-known as the author of "The Wizard of Oz", and the 1939                       movie plays just as much a role in "Finding Dorothy" as does Baum's original                                 book. Letts did a very thorough job in her research, and it shows throughout                                   the book. I would highly recommend this book for anyone who loves historical                               fiction, "The Wizard of Oz" and stories of strong women. 




  23. The Ancestor by Danielle Trussoni

         ☆ Wow! Trussoni has taken the popular "sole heir of a castle, have to come here to

claim" storyline, and turned it on its head. Through most of the book, I am sure

of how the story will end. The closer I came to the ending, the more I discovered

how wrong I was.





  24. Uncensored: My Life and Uncomfortable Conversations at the Intersection of

Black and White America by Zachary Wood

        ☆ I have often said that if people would just take the time to listen to each other,

the world would be a much better place. Zachary Wood thrives in this type of

environment. This book, which is part autobiographical, will leave you thinking

for a long time afterward. It will definitely open your eyes to working together

to help solve our country's problems.





  25. Daisy Jones and the Six by Taylor Jenkins Reid

        ☆ Before reading, I had heard rumors that others had actually Googled the band, 
             thinking it really existed. That just shows how well-written this book is to 
             gather that type of interest. Also, to use the printed interview format (such as 
             what you would find in People magazine) was the best way to tell this story.




  26.  The Pull of the Stars by Emma Donoghue

        ☆ In 2018, the author hears stories of how the Spanish Flu affected her home

country of Ireland, and decides to write a story of a nurse in a maternity ward 

            with flu patients during the epidemic. At the beginning of March 2020, she drops

off her completed manuscript with the publisher. And yet, the comparisons

to our lives during the COVID-19 pandemic makes this story eerily relevant.





  27.  Lakota Woman by Mary Crow Dog, with Richard Erdoes

        ☆ Winner of the American Book Award for 1991, "Lakota Woman" tells the story of

Mary Crow Dog, her upbringing on a Lakota Sioux reservation, her participation

in the American Indian Movement, and her marriage to Leonard Crow Dog

(medicine man and spiritual leader of AIM). I read books such as "Lakota Woman"

to better understand the backgrounds and perspectives of others, and this book

did not disappoint.






 28.  The Flight Girls by Noelle Salazar

         ☆ Audrey Coltrane is a Texas society girl who just wants to fly planes. After

surviving the attack on Pearl Harbor, she joins the Women's Airforce Service

Pilots program. I loved this historical fiction novel! Romance, women's

friendship, history & airplanes...love it all! My hubby was an airplane mechanic

for 20 years. Any time I can talk to him about historic planes, maneuvers and

such is a win in my book!






  29.  Temple Grandin: How the Girl Who Loved Cows Embraced Autism and Changed

the World by Sy Montgomery 

         ☆ I've always been amazed whenever I've heard Temple Grandin's story in the past.

Growing up in a time when not much was known about autism, she not only

learned how to accept it. She has embraced what autism has brought to her life.

This Booklist review sums up my thoughts on this YA book very succinctly, "It isn't

easy to describe how the mind of someone with autism works, but Montgomery's

biography effectively breaks the disorder down for a younger audience while

introducing the extraordinary life of activist Temple Grandin."

 




 30.  Librarian Tales by William Ottens

         ☆ As a librarian myself for almost 15 years, I have to recommend this book as a

good "behind-the-scenes" take on one of our most beloved institutions: the

public library.






   31.     Life She Was Given by Ellen Marie Wiseman

            ☆ I will admit that it was the cover that caught my eye on this book, but I was

hooked the minute I started to read. Secrets may lead to tragic circumstances,

but they eventually have a way of coming to light. The lives of Lily and Julia

Blackwood will keep you turning the pages until the very end!






  32.     Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

            ☆ Where the Crawdads Sing stayed on the bestseller list for so long and is a

historical fiction novel (a favorite genre), so I had to read to see what all of

the fuss was about! The story of Kya, the Marsh Girl, is told in such a way as

to transport the reader to the marshes of North Carolina and make you want

to take care of this dear girl.







 33.     The Aussie Next Door by Stefanie London

            ☆ In many ways, The Aussie Next Door is your typical romance book. But it is so

much more! The two main characters have real life issues they are dealing

with, such as autism and a childhood spent in the foster care system. Both are

dealt with in a very realistic manner and will have you rooting for them to

make it!





 34.     The Voting Booth by Brandy Colbert

            ☆ For someone who generally does not read YA, I seem to have read quite a few

this year! When the election was still ahead of us, I had read a review of this

book. I was not disappointed! Teenage romance being at the heart of the

story, it still manages to show the importance of voting without being

preachy about it. I will be watching out for more books by Brandy Colbert!





 35.     Whiskey in a Teacup by Reece Witherspoon

           ☆ With a 20 mile commute to work, I have started to listen to audiobooks.

And, if you find yourself sometimes just wanting a fun read to keep you

awake, Reece is your girl! Read by the author herself, the book takes you

through her southern upbringing and what she has learned from the

strong women in her life. ~ (Recipes are included in the book format.)







 36.     The Sisters of Glass Ferry by Kim Michele Richardson

           ☆ The previous year, I fell in love with a book called " Woman of Troublesome

Creek" by Kim Michele Richardson. It immediately became one of my

favorites, and I set out to discover what else she may have written. The

Sisters of Glass Ferry is a close 2nd-favorite. The author has a wonderful way

of making you feel like you are sitting in small town Kentucky watching

happening in front of you. If you try one new author this year, Kim Michele

Richardson is the one I would most recommend!





Saturday, October 31, 2020

Shop Small ~ Unique Gifts from "DreamChaser" Businesses

Hard to believe, but the holidays are just around the corner! πŸŽ„πŸŽ…πŸŽ„

We can all admit that 2020 has been a kinda totally crazy year, and it would be so  easy to just give up on wanting to salvage it. However, I think we have a way of ending this year on a fantastic note 🎢 that can bring a lot of cheer to the "Dreamchasers" that you may know!

I know several people that have been Chasing the Dream with their own businesses, and have been hit hard in 2020. While Amazon and Wal-mart were doing a killer business, they were struggling to keep their dreams going this year. 

And, while talking to a good friend of mine recently, she reminded me of the best way to shop for Christmas this year. She is planning on buying all of her presents🎁🎁🎁, gift certificates, vouchers, etc. from small businesses this.




Shop Small   πŸ› πŸ’³πŸ’² πŸ›

I would like to help my friend, and all of you, by helping you to spend your money πŸ’°πŸ’°πŸ’° wisely. 

If you have friends and neighbors in your own community that you would love to support, start by Shopping Small at their businesses. That would be wonderful!

However, if you are looking at new businesses and would like to support a few fantastic ladies just following their dreams...then, check out these DreamChasers right now!




Shop Small at these "DreamChaser" Businesses Today!


Heather @ Blue Barn Hill Farm

"Dreamchaser" Story 

Since I was very young I have loved kids, animals, plants, crafting and baking. It has taken a lot of hard work and sacrifices but I am finally able to do everything I love AND I get to do it all from my home, so I can still take care of my family too . We started our family in 2000 at a young age in Florida . In 2009, after losing everything  in the recession, we had an opportunity to move to Indiana & start over . I came begrudgingly because I didn't want to leave my home (Florida & city life was all I had ever known). I struggled with depression for several years after we moved. And then I started crafting, selling produce & baked goods at our local farmer's market. That reignited a spark that had died...and I started embracing our new life. We started by putting up an honor system produce stand, and we have continued growing from there. I have fallen in love with the farm life. The last two years have been full of growth & change . Currently, we have a farm where we sell all naturally raised produce in the summer, hatch/sell chickens year round, have weekly bake sales all summer, and sell crafts online. 

I have designed a website so I can sell our delicious Old Fashioned Homemade Hard Candy. Our candy can be ordered easily & shipped anywhere in the USA! And the best part of all, is I am able to raise my 10 kids while I work from home. Itls not always easy & I feel like a scatterbrained wreck some days, but it is everything I love all wrapped up together so I can also help provide for my family :)

What I Sell

(Image source: Blue Barn Hill Farm)

Contact Info

Website is www.bluebarnhillfarm.com

Facebook page is www.facebook.com/bluebarnhillfarm


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Katie @ Historically Katie

"Dreamchaser" Story 

I have always been a writer. As a child, I spent hours filling spiral notebooks with stories. As I grew, I continued writing and began dreaming of becoming an author some day. I dreamed especially of writing historical fiction for kids and teens. When I entered college, my first majors were History and Writing with this goal in mind. Somewhere along the line, however, I got it in my head that this wasn’t sensible or even doable. So, I changed my major to Elementary Education. I graduated with this degree and went into the education field, though I have always continued to write and dream in story ideas. In 2012, I finally released my very first novel - and it was young adult historical fiction. It was a dream come true. Since then I have published other books, including a sequel to my first book and a children’s picture book based on the memoir of an ancestor of mine. I am finally realizing a dream of combining education and writing. I run an online business called Historically Katie, which serves as encouragement, support, and guidance for families who write. I am still writing too. I am happy to finally bring my writing dream to life in my career. 

What I Sell  

I sell writing resources for kids and families at my TeachersPayTeachers shop. More are being added all the time, and I offer free writing prompts and activities for email subscribers at my site. Resources include writing prompts, writing choice boards, plus poetry, literature, and history writing activities. Online writing classes for kids may be coming soon, too! 


(Image source: Historicallykatie.com)


Contact Info

Website is: https://www.historicallykatie.com/

Also:  https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Store/Historically-Katie

https://www.amazon.com/Katie-Andrews-Potter/e/B077G5JW1M

Email address: kathrynandrewspotter@gmail.com


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Terri @ The Silver Dragonfly 

"Dreamchaser" story

As the mother of 5 sons, fishing and soccer and rough housing were the norm.  As much as I love spending time with my kids, I needed some girl time.  I have always been a crafter and creator, so I started dabbling with beads.  My little sister moved back from the east coast, and beading became something we could do together -- my girl time.  I was still working full-time hours at a corporate gig at that point.  Then the day came that changed everything....I got downsized!  After some serious soul-searching and the ever present support of my loving husband and son's....The Silver Dragonfly LLC was born!  It will always be a work in progress, but I couldn't be happier with where it is today.


What I sell ~ Handcrafted fine silver jewelry


(Image source: The Silver
                                                              Dragonfly FB page)


Contact Info

(Terri is offering a code to help you save some money! Just enter DREAMS at checkout to save 10%.)     

Email address is: info@thesilverdragonfly.com

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Sandy James (Award-winning author)

"Dreamchaser" Story

By day, Sandy James is a high school teacher. However, she has also carved out a successful career as an award-winning author, while still continuing to be a well-loved educator. She is the author of several stand-alone novels, and quite a few book series.  Too numerous to list them all here, but you can find them listed on her website (https://sandyjames.com/books.html) or at Fantastic Fiction (https://www.fantasticfiction.com/j/sandy-james/). I have already become a big fan of hers, and you can read my "Dreamchaser Spotlight" post here.  According to her standings on Amazon, she has many more fans, also. She has won awards for her work, including the Maggie Award for Excellence Finalist and two Holt Medallion Awards.


What I sell


(Image source: Fantastic Fiction)



Contact Info

Website is: www.sandyjames.com/index, or go to Amazon to learn more about her books.


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You can't go wrong by "Shopping Small"! ~ You are helping a DreamChaser to continue following their dreams while finding unique gifts to give family and friends! Please remember to share the idea of  "Shopping Small" (and this post, too!) with all of your friends!

     




Thursday, September 17, 2020

Thankful Thursday ~ There Is Always a Reason to Be Thankful



Attitude of Gratitude


It is not what happens to us in life that determines what kind of life we have. It is how we respond to the events in our lives that will have the most impact. I have seen very
wealthy people that are miserable, as well as poor people that are joyous.

Choose to have an "Attitude of Gratitude"!!! Look for all the small things to be thankful for, as well as the extraordinary. 


  • Take the time to appreciate the beauty of a sunsetπŸŒ‡, or an Autumn tree.
  • Notice the small kindnesses that come your way, such as a door held open for you, such as your husband giving a small neck rub πŸ’† because you are stressed out.
  • Even if only for 5 minutes, enjoy the rest for your weary body & mind.πŸ›ŒπŸ’€πŸ›Œ
  • We should always be thankful for our health. A healthy body is such a blessing. πŸ’ͺ🍎🏊
  • True friendship is many times undervalued. Having friends who are there for each other can help you weather any storm. πŸ‘₯πŸ‘₯
  • Every day that you are alive is a day to be grateful. Each day, you wake up with a clean slate and can begin anew.πŸŒ…

What are you thankful for right now? Do you already have an "Attitude of Gratitude"? 

Saturday, August 29, 2020

Don't Box Me In: Lessons From My Cat

Are you always on the lookout πŸ” for new ideas? Trying to keep your eyes πŸ˜ƒπŸ‘€πŸ˜ƒ open for motivation to follow your dreams? 

Fantastic! As you do, you will discover that motivation, inspiration and sources of learning can be found all around you! 

Amazingly, even our pets can teach us a thing or two! 😸😻😸


Today's Lesson by Miss CallieCat


Let me start by introducing you to this little furball, who goes by the name of CallieCat. She is your typical cat that normally goes about her day on her own terms. However, on this particular day, I was attempting to manipulate her to my terms: as a photography πŸ“· subject. 

I had been following her around with my smartphone for a little while, to work on my focusing skills and candid shots. And as I watched her with these empty boxes, it hit me that I was being taught some very interesting concepts about life!


1. Don't Let Anyone Box You In.

I had been trying to get her to jump into the other box. She was not having anything to do with it. When I least expected it, she jumped into this box on her own. Then, looked at me like, "I will get in the box I want, when I want!"



2. Have an Open Mind, and Stay Curious.

Learning is always a good thing! Be willing to look at life from different perspectives. Investigate new ideas. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone. If you notice, CallieCat is not leaving her original box as she investigates a new box. She is merely learning about it, before making any changes. As the saying goes, "Look before you leap!"




3. Think Outside the Box.

The box is the status quo, or the "way things have always been done".  Sometimes, the best answer to a problem can be found outside the box. Trying a different way to proceed, or looking at a project from a new angle, might be the exactly what is needed to have that golden "Aha" moment!




In Conclusion

This blog post is a perfect example of the lessons I have learned from Miss CallieCat.  😻😻😻 Although this blog is generally about following your dreams and trying new endeavors, I am always open to new ways of inspiring you to do just that.

Realizing that I myself can find inspiration from my cat 😺 and a couple of boxes πŸ“¦πŸ“¦ was a little bit of an eye-opener to me.

What Are Your Thoughts?

Have you found inspiration, or interesting insights, in the most unusual places? Have you learned anything from your pets? Are you already an "Outside the Box" thinker who doesn't like to be "Boxed in" by others? Do you have an open mind, and try to stay curious?

I'm curious about your thoughts. Leave me a comment below, and let me know what you think. And always, if you think others might be interested, please share on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or Pinterest!


Sunday, August 9, 2020

Embrace Who You Are!

 Do you like who you are? πŸ€”πŸ€”

I understand that this may be tough to answer, but it is necessary to ask yourself this question every so often. 

Why? Because if you cannot embrace who you are, you cannot really go forward in life. You can exist, but you can't go towards what you really want without some type of inner compass leading the way.  When you know who you are and what you want, you have confidence in yourself.

And according to an affirmation inside my new purse:


EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE

What does this mean to embrace who you are? Let's start by defining what it means to embrace.

According to the Oxford Dictionary, one definition of the word:

 Embrace ~ an act of accepting or supporting something willingly or enthusiastically. 

It is easy to accept something enthusiastically when it is a fun activity, or a new passion. Much, much harder to enthusiastically do the same for yourself.

How to Start Embracing What Makes You, You!


♡♡ Embrace What You Love to Do

    *For myself, I have always loved reading. I cannot remember a time that I didn't. I 
      love this facet of my life. I have learned so much, gained perspective & been made a 
      better person through my reading. 
       (I know that I have truly accepted this. Today, Facebook brought up 5 past "On this 
        day" memories ~ they were all about National Booklover's Day!)
      
A Typical Reading Pile from 
my nightstand!

♡♡ Embrace Your Unique Personality

     *If you love to talk (and can make friends standing in lines even), wonderful! If you           are more reserved & quiet, fantastic! People that are drawn to you appreciate these         qualities in you and will enjoy your company.

♡♡ Embrace Authenticness

    *I am not sure if "authenticness" is a word, but it is now! LOL πŸ™Œ  Being authentic is        one of the best things you can be. Whether someone is an unlikable old cuss or a              people person, at least you can appreciate when someone is real. No games, no                messing around, just be yourself! People will either like you or they won't, but at least          you will be true to yourself.

Last Words

I will close with an appropriate quote. I am not quite clear on the origins of this quote, but it is very fitting for our discussion today.

"No matter where you go, there you are." 

EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE! You are unique for a reason! And, at the end of the day, you have to learn to love yourself, because no matter where you go, there you are. 

And as my purseπŸ‘› has already stated above: Confidence is your best accessory!


Tuesday, July 14, 2020

Tuesday Motivation~Permission to not be Perfect

As we all love to binge-watch favorite shows on Netflix, I have to confess that I am no exception! LOL.  πŸ“ΊπŸ“ΊπŸ“Ί

Recently, I found a new uplifting positive show about inspiring women. It is called "Shine On With Reese", starring (of course!) Reese Witherspoon. She goes around the country, interviewing women that have made a difference.



In the episode I watched tonight, a small part of a conversation with Sara Blakely caught my attention. 

Just one of those little things that you don't realize you need to hear, until you hear it!

Transcript of Conversation

Reese: Well, I think you have to be like water off a duck's back...if you wanna accomplish anything.

I think about people like you or anybody who's accomplished something really extraordinary, has to learn to tune out the naysayers.

Sara: Yeah, I consider that a life practice for me is to really work on not caring what other people think.

I think that that is something that, as women, if there's, if we could free ourselves up from feeling that need, to look like we have it all together at all times...

Reese: Yeah. I have these days when I'm so on it, and everything is firing on every cylinder, and there's days where I'm just like 30% of myself. Like I'm lobotomized or something.

I had this great coach when I did this movie where I was playing a softball player, and she said, "I don't care if you have 30%, give me 100% of that 30%."

I was like, "Thank you. What a relief."

Sara: Permission.

Reese:  Permission to not be perfect. 

Sara:  Permission. Right.

"Shine On with Reese" on Netflix


Tuesday's Motivational Takeaway

In an era of Pinterest and more, I think that last line bears repeating one more time...."Permission to not be Perfect."


~  Be yourself! Enjoy life! Be a good person! Try to help people! ~


Those are important. But, do not worry at all about being perfect! You have permission to not be perfect. 

What do you think? Did you need to hear this today?






Friday, July 10, 2020

Photography Friday ~ Life in the Country

Peaceful...that is the word we hear all the time from our visitors. 

"I love being out here! It's just so peaceful." ☺πŸ’¬☺

On this Photography Friday πŸ“·πŸ“ΈπŸ“·, I thought I would share a little bit of our peaceful countryside charm.

Enjoy! We definitely do!



Sunset in Paradise



No Electricity Stops Me from
Enjoying Life!



A Beautiful View 



Apple Tree Blooms



Miss CallieCat



What do you think?